Accept Complete Responsibility
Posted on August 26, 2007
Filed Under Rants and Raves, Internet Marketing: General
I think people read my sales copy and think it’s an act -
It’s not.
I have ZERO patience for whiners and crybabies. I have zero tolerance for people who are still stuck to the nipple.
Not because I’m anti-social or mean-spirited - but because I know that people stuck in that level of personal paralysis have no chance at success.
When I was 18 I joined the military and learned some hard lessons. When I was 19 I was chosen to work for the President of the United States - in the White House. When someone asked if the job got done there were two acceptable answers - yes and no. If the answer was “no” - then what needs to occur to get the job done.
There was no whining - no finger pointing. That was simply not accepted and if it happened more than once, you didn’t have a job.
Great lessons? Absolutely. And I have little tolerance for people who play outside that, whether that seems fair or not - learn the lesson.
If you think I’m the reason - or anyone else for that matter - for your lack of success, your inability to “have what you want”, for you not being able to log into the account that you signed up for with a bogus email address . . . well, it’s time to grow the fuck up.
Ask any customer of mine who’s showed up and done the work - I will GIVE you my time to help you succeed. I WANT you to succeed. Maybe it’s from the goodness of my heart . . . and maybe it’s because I want to hear about how great my stuff is - that it really works.
Whatever the motivation, people will show up to help people like that. You don’t need sympathy or mommie’s apron strings - I don’t know of many people who appreciate that. People in that frame of mind are a waste of everybody’s time because when that crisis passes, we’re on to the next.
Energy vampires . . . losers.
I don’t call people “loser’s” to be demeaning - it just is what it is. It’s an attitude that become self-fulfilling prophecy. And it isn’t until you look yourself square on and admit that’s how you’re behaving that you can set yourself up to start winning.
I’ve been a loser. I hated it about myself - don’t expect me to like it about you. And don’t expect me to tolerate it for $48 or $97 or $5000.
Tolerating that about you in a DISSERVICE TO YOU. And it takes more of my energy than I’m willing to give.
I have better things to do for people who are going to accept complete responsibility for the results they produce.
The moment you begin to accept complete responsibility for how you deal with anything and everything that comes into your life . . . that is the moment you begin to win.
I know that people come to me for mind candy - but if you don’t master this one, it doesn’t matter what I tell you, what I show you - it’s a waste.
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lol X
Have you had a shitty email off someone
Pete
No, not one - closer to six . . .